What if?

by - 21:06

These are two words that go around most peoples minds a billion times when growing up. 
What if..
i tried this..
we didn't break up..
i tried a bit harder..
i spent more money..
i didn't give up..
i didn't push people away..
i had better grades..
But why are all of these negative? 

There is always something that we will what if about, but what if we didn't? 
what if we stepped back, looked at the situation, decided what was the best thing for us, our self's as a person weather it be to make our self's feel better or invest, or even ending a relationship that isn't good for us..
What if we made the best decision in that situation and didn't have to look back and think about what could have happened if we didn't make that decision. After all we made that decision for a reason right? 

What if, we turned all those bad what if's into good one? For that negative one in our head to push us, to make us want to something were holding back on. The one thing to remember is, you never know what will happen unless you do it, you never know how great it could make you feel? so stop what if'ing yourself and DO IT! 

Don't let the fear of the future hold you back. 

Lilypad xo

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  1. Aww this is such an inspiring post! "What if" is a very dangerous question to ask since it can make you sad and I plan to avoid using it as much as possible. :)


  2. Thank you so much :) xo
    (Checking out your blog now)

    Lilypad xo